I sold my land at Sapele to finance her before she left. Now she
telling me that there is lots of poverty in Nigeria that i should start
making arrangement to send our three sons over there while i plan on
joining them when i am ready. I really think i have shot myself in the
leg with my own gun. My worry is that she could afford to abandon her
kids. Since the later part of 2014, I have refused to put the kids on
the phone with her believing that she would miss them and think twice
but i was mistaken. I am not daft. I know a man is involved behind the
scene. I accused her of being harbored by another man and also of
cheating too. she flared up accusing me of being insecure and obsessive.
She even threatened to sue me for denying her access to her sons. early
last year, during an argument, she told me that i was free to marry
another woman if i cant wait after-all some people told her that i dont
even sleep at home on weekends. That all she wants is her children that I
am free to do as i like.
I involved my mentor and even our pastor who also tried talking
sense into her and the latest development is that she dosnt take his
calls anymore. She told him that if he was truly a man of God that he
should advise me to start thinking of moving to Ukrainian instead of
supporting me to bring her back to suffering in Nigeria. Even the GS
wife who was like a mother to us had to back off when she accused her of
intruding into our marriage before banging the phone on her. Am facing
lots of temptation,pressure and S3xually.
As a christian what do i do in this situation cos i know that she is
enjoying herself over there with another man. I have been faithful all
through. I have even been pushed to Ma5turbate a few times just to
maintain my vows before God.
She has caused me lots of grief. I have not seen my daughter in 5 years.
She stopped allowing me to speak to her because i didnt put the boys on
the phone. I am losing my mind. I need ur advice and prayers.
How can a responsible woman abandoned her family just like that. Its not
that we can not move to Europe but it has to be my call not just
something she can wake up and force down my throat.
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