Some Nigerian women have responded to a survey that seeks
to know their choices in the area of sizes of manhood for se.xual
purposes.
The size of a man’s s*xual organ, the p*nis, may not be the only
part of the body that can determine the ability of a man to se.xually
satisfy a woman, a survey by a news Agency has shown.
While the length of a p*nis could help in making s*xual intercourse
pleasurable in some persons, that could not be the sole determinant in
assuring pleasures during an intercourse.
Those who spoke in separate interviews with NAN in Lagos on Sunday, noted that se.xual satisfaction
could depend on the skills and psychological disposition of both
partners. According to them, there are other parts of the body that can
be exploited to help a woman to derive pleasures in s*xual intercourse.
These could include fore plays, that play vital roles in helping a women
to reach orgasm.
The respondents believe that reaching orgasm was a climax during
s*xual intercourse between a man and woman. According to Wordweb, an
online dictionary, orgasm is the moment of the most intense pleasure in
se.xual intercourse. Dr Oriola Idris, a gynaecologist of the White
Waters Hospital, Lagos, said the size of pe.nis had no physical effect
on female se.xual satisfaction.
“Se.xual pleasures for the female folks do not depend on the
size of the man’s pe.nis. It depends on a man’s individual skills; we
have seen men who have very long and big pe.nis and yet unable to
perform well in bed.
“Research has shown that men with se.xual skills, but with
relatively small sized pe.nis can also provide good se.xual satisfaction
to any lady’’.
Another gynaecologist, Dr Julia Anyanwu said a woman could derive
s*xual satisfaction or reach orgasm from the different erogenous zones
of her body.
“The p*nis is not the only part of the body that can help a
woman to achieve orgasm. A woman can achieve orgasm from so many
different sensitive areas of her body.
“The man is expected to work together with his partner to explore these erogenous zones.
“So, achieving se.xual satisfaction is not only about the
length or width of the pe.nis but also about what and how you utilise
what you have been endowed with,’’ Anyanwu said.
Dr Kunle Adejumo, an urologist said: “studies show that during se.xual intercourse, the width of the p*nis at the base may be more stimulating to the clitoris.
“A wide pe.nis may therefore, satisfy a woman better but then other factors that also come into play’’.
According to Dr Kelechi Ahuchogu, a psychologist, the pe.nis is
usually seen as the sign of masculinity in men in different cultures. “It
is because of this reason that the size of the p*nis helps to boost the
male psychology. In se.xual plays, a lot of things come into play; for
some woman, the width matters more than the length.
“Then, emotions, environment, skills and healthiness contribute to whether there will be se.xual satisfaction or not,’’ Ahuchogu added.
Mr Dare Odubela, an administrative officer in a Lagos-based
hospital said that posturing during se.xual intercourse had a role to
play in the satisfaction of a woman. “I believe that posturing during s*x has roles to play in getting a woman to achieve orgasm’’.
Mr Titus Anozie, a Lagos-based technologist said: “se.xual intercourse and satisfaction are more psychological than physical.
“Some people have big pe.nis and do not know how to use it to provide pleasures to a woman. Some even end up using the fat size to hurt their female partners.
“Sometimes it depends on a woman as some can achieve orgasm by
merely looking into the eyes of a man that they have emotions for’’.
According to Mrs Ola Badamosi, a Lagos-based marketing consultant,
the size of a pe.nis is important in deriving se.xual satisfaction. She
said that a small sized p*nis might not be able to penetrate deep into a
woman to provide her the required arousal needed for orgasm to take
place.
Another respondent, Mrs Mary Isaac, a 33 –year-old banker said that
a lady’s first experience could also have a lot to play in deriving
se.xual pleasures.
“If a lady is deflowered with a small manhood, she tends to
derive her satisfaction from small pe.nis and not the long sized ones.
“A female that has gone through se.xual abuse can also find
se.xual intercourse distasteful. Even, a lady that has had circumcision
may not find pleasures in having intercourse’’. This, she notes,
can be attributed to the removal of a vital component of a womans
se.xual organ, the clitoris that helps a woman to acheive full or father
se.xual pleasures.
A Lagos-based Lawyer, Mr Idowu Martins said: “I have a small
manhood and I am not afraid to say it; I am very good in the bed and
that is a fact. My wife enjoys our love making’’.
A trader, known simply as Mrs Ibrahim said: “my husband has it long pe.nis but still unable to make me feel like a woman; I feel so sad about it.
“He is usually through within two minutes. If a man has it small and can utilise it, then it’s okay’’.
Mr Niyi Iyanu, a traditional healthcare attendant said, having a
small pe.nis could really be a major concern for some men but a good
psychological disposition could enhance se.xual performance. “He
said those who have small pe.nis and cannot perform well in bed should
seek expert advice from physicians or psychologists’’.
Mr Olusola Malomo, a dietician at the Massey Hospital, Lagos
suggested that those deficient in se.xual activity could seek for some
foods that could help to boost their se.xual performance. “Some foods can be beneficial. These are foods that can enhance se.xual performance because of their components”.
He listed them to include watermelon, garlic, ginseng, lemon,
ginger, avocado pear, oysters, grain of paradise, alligator pepper and
pomegranate seeds. As many experts noted, the size of pe.nis may not
satisfy all the se.xual desires of a woman, but appropriate
manipulations could prove successful in fulfilling the se.xual desires
of a woman.
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